Is it fair to the kids that are born that their parents can’t get along and divorce because of it? Is it fair that they listen to the screaming and yelling – or that they are forced to listen from one or both parents that the other is a louse, or worse….tell them what’s fair.
Solutions are no more simple than the problems that require them – I feel for the children caught in the middle.
Unity is a wonderful thing…support for one another when your emotions are torn apart is also a good thing…..anarchy because of your anger that your relationship failed is quite another.
Yes, parental sharing and equity should be a given….but guess what…lots of things in life aren’t fair….and once again, the children suffer for it.
I don’t know any magical way to make custodial and non-custodial parents “build a bridge and get over it” when a relationship ends…..I wish there was an easy answer.